Cranthan

 i think something thats been forgotten amongst people is the importance on individuality. we are our own people, we write our own stories, and yet we rely on other people for our happiness and identity now more than ever. i believe its because of social media, where we've became so attached to these little pop ups and algorithms, giving us a little boost of dopamine and such, that we've forgotten raw human connections, especially within relationships. a lot of people i know say stuff along the lines of "oh once i get into a relationship ill be happy" or "she can fix me" which can obviously be jokes but on the off chance they arent jokes, its really sad. relying on someone else for your happiness is the worst thing you can do, and i think the reason why relationships, whether that be friends or loved ones, dont last that long anymore, is because theres a lack of connection, which explains why people are so quick to jump between on relationship to another. it isnt for love, its to fill a void in their heart, where self-love would go. its sad to see and i believe its killing individuality. of course theres also individulity in art and creativity and such but im not going to go down that conversation right now. just something ive been thinking of.